I certainly understand this question. I've found it really hard to pin down this fetish. I'm no expert by any means, but the more I try to get a handle on it.. the more it seems that everybody even remotely interested in this feitsh is on a totaly different page, where the pages are maybe just barely overlaping.
I could see where whatever your thoughts are on this subject that you could feel like you are in the minority.
Personally for me being a dominate male, dollification is sort of an offshoot of BDSM. I've VERY much into bondage and D/S and M/S reltionships. And I don't just play in the bedroom To me the ideas, concepts and feelings behind it are very real and dominate my every thought and feeling. So it's not just something I dable with every once in a while to make things interesting in the bedroom. It is pervasive throughout my every desire. And what pulls me towards dollification is sort of this feeling of dollification being a metephor for bondage that isn't just for an hour.. or even two.. or even half a day.. but this kind of fantasy of wanting to keep my submissive/slave bound 24/7. It's a very powerful analgy of her not just being my fucktoy in words.. but of BECOMING my fucktoy.. in body, mind, heart, and soul.. and something/one that you truely OWN! >:)
What i've seen most women write about (wither it's a forum post, a blog post or a story) seems that the transformation into a doll or being a doll is almost a substitue for sex. Not that sex isn't aluded to or never happens.. but it seems like almost a secondary consideration. And many seem almost asexual.. neither really attracted to men or women. Many seem to talk about everything under the sun about being a doll.. EXCEPT sex. Which is fine, for them, but kind of misses the whole point for me. To me transforming into a doll is the beginning of the journey.. not the destination.
Then second story/posts/blogs written by women to that seems to be a lot of Female/Female stories, thoughts, posts, etc. Well.. that doesn't interest me in the least. These suprisingly seem to actually contain more talk about sex when the "owner" is a female. Which saddens me that more sexual doll stories/posts by women are about two women. :/ I've often told guys who think the whole "lesbian thing" is hot to be careful what you wish for. Personally to me there is nothing hot about a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with you.
Then almost at the bottom, very rarely, I will run accross a story that is a straight male/female story about a woman turned into a love doll/sex doll/fucktoy and is actually USED as such. Inevitably the writer behind those always happens to be a guy (who's probably not to much unlike myself). That doesn't do me much good, but at least it's something good to read.
The closest I've ever seen anyone talk about actually becoming a female living sex doll/fucktoy IRL frustratinly ends up being written by a man. Not much unlike yourself and others in this thread , no offense, just not my thing.
But utlimatly.. I can see why you think you are in the minority. Join the club, I think everyone seems to feel like they are in the minority when it comes to this. I think that's why most of the "dollification/objectification/doll/etc" sites/forums/groups that I have run accross, including this one, don't seem to be very active at all.
I think currently this is definatly a very fringe fetish that's really out there on the outskirts.
Maybe that will change someday. Not holding my breath though. :/